Sun Music: The Sound of the Sun
File this under “I’m so proud.” I’m very proud my husband. Check out the article written by Pulitzer-Prize winning journalist, Kenneth J. Cooper […]
Love & relationships
Secrets and Lies
My mother once shared the following line that she overheard a man saying to his girlfriend, “I ain’t lyin’ I […]
So my son is dating a white woman
So my son is dating a white girl woman. My son is dating a specific woman. I’m okay with this… […]
There must be 50 ways to love your lover
There must be 50 ways to love your lover.* Here’s a list of suggestions I’ve come up with to love […]
The trap of packaging
Don’t let the packaging prevent you from opening the gift! I have a friend who wraps the gifts she gives […]
Alone…so many women
Gorgeous 28 year-old, college-graduate (BS & MBA), African-American, communications & marketing professional. In the market to purchase her first home. Fun-loving. […]
Reciprocity
Give only to those from whom you have received. Receive only from those to whom you have given. Ayi Kwei […]
This or that? (depends)
Were you making an observation or lodging a complaint? Are you noticing or criticizing? Am I informing or bragging? Am I sharing […]
Just One is All You Need
All you have to find is that one person to love you. Not thousands, just one. One who thrills at […]
Do You and Your Mate, Lover, Spouse do Couple-y Things?
I didn’t do any of it in high school. I didn’t do any of it in college. I didn’t do […]
Watching you, watching me
Couples tend to watch each other: he watches my food intake, I watch his drinking. Watching…noticing personal habits, foibles, tendencies and […]
Don’t Bring Home a White Boy and other Notions that ...
I’ve recently had conversations with four of my friends about the lack of dates, mates or love in their lives. […]
Touched back
Touched Backcopyright then & 2010 by Candelaria Silva Brothers, when I touch youI’m trying to communicate the feeling.Black man,when I touch youI want […]
Red = Valentine’s Gifts
My friend, Jim, on his blog, Wrinkled Man, wrote the following short poem/thought on 2.05.2010: Love without money only goes so far. […]
Sometimes love goes missing.
Sometimes love goes missing. When it does – go find it! Did it get trapped in the pages of yet another […]
A Ring-Tone of Love
I have a couple of blog ideas in the queue that are musings, rants, rumblings – \the usual stuff. They’ll […]
It takes two to tango – cheating in marriage
Cheating in a marriage requires two participants – the person who cheats and the person who is cheated with. The […]
Love in Action
Expressing love, feeling love, writing love, drawing love and are things done frequently but none of them show love. This […]