7 When they need you, they will find youWhen they need you, they will find you. They will text you, email you, or call you. Turns […] This entry was posted in Musings about life and tagged Annoyances Minor irritation Overwhelmed with requests on October 12, 2022 by Candelaria Silva
4 Carpe the effin’ diem: Thoughts and Advice for Artists/CreatorsThis short essay first appeared on the ArtsBoston blog. They asked me to write something about the arts […] This entry was posted in Advice Art Encouragement Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged Advice to Artists and Creatives ArtsBoston Do it Now on December 18, 2020 by Candelaria Silva
6 Breakfast for DinnerIt was a surprise, a treat, and a strategy although as a kid at the time, I felt […] This entry was posted in Encouragement Food Laughter & Joy Money and thrift Musings about life Parenting The Family Uncategorized and tagged hard times making do making ends meet scrambled eggs women friendship on September 29, 2020 by Candelaria Silva
2 Closeness – a touch, a touch, a touchTo meld into an embrace, hugging so tightly that your breathing relaxes, your muscles release, and you exchange […] This entry was posted in Covid-19 Pandemic Love & relationships Musings about life Pleasures Scary & Worrisom and tagged connection Covid-9 hugs on June 15, 2020 by Candelaria Silva
4 Distance ReadingMy reading distances me; it takes me away from people I love. It sometimes forms a barrier. I […] This entry was posted in Language & Words Musings about life Reading The Family words of wisdom and tagged Aplogy Readaholic THings that create distance on May 24, 2020 by Candelaria Silva
6 Calendar BetrayalThe reminders pop up every day in my calendar. This meeting…that meeting. This event…that event. The words feel […] This entry was posted in Musings about life Rants and tagged Covid-19 calendar Makanda Project planning ahead Thread Tech Boston on April 29, 2020 by Candelaria Silva
10 Uncovering and Rediscovering My Corners during Covid-19 PandemicSheltering in place during the Covid-19 pandemic is allowing me to uncover and rediscover the corners of my […] This entry was posted in Celebration Encouragement Language & Words Musings about life With Gratitude & Thanks Women and tagged Alice Walker Candelaria Silva coping Corid-19 pandemic gratitude Langston Hughes Ms magazine quarantine sheltering in place Solitude sun music Toni Morrison on April 8, 2020 by Candelaria Silva
6 Longing for the times when I was living free – ...Longing for the times that used to be How many new lives will be made? How many bills […] This entry was posted in Language & Words Musings about life and tagged Candelaria Silva Covid-19; panedemic doomsday Lucille Clifton pandemic behavior on March 17, 2020 by Candelaria Silva
2 Today is the only day we have to loveThis is the only February 14th I have. I have to do the things I want to do […] This entry was posted in Love & relationships Musings about life on February 14, 2020 by Candelaria Silva
2 Keep your eyes on the prize: finish the degree!Dear Daughter, You have delivered them to college (Morehouse and North Carolina A&T). What you’ve been grooming them […] This entry was posted in Advice Children Dorchester Love & relationships Musings about life Parenting The Family and tagged advice for college finishing college finishing what you start getting your degree Graduating from high school grandchildren grandmother's advice keep your eyes on the prize Morehouse College North Cartolina A&T on September 3, 2019 by Candelaria Silva
3 It’s Raining – My Sisters are Pooring(It’s raining, it’s pouring, my sister are pooring.*) If we had really understood, do you think we would […] This entry was posted in Advice Money and thrift Musings about life and tagged Candelaria Silva failing to prepare for tomorrow getting older money on June 7, 2019 by Candelaria Silva
4 Channeling my inner Norma Jean (Mama)My mother is a strong woman. When the going gets tough, she gets tough and keeps going. I […] This entry was posted in Beauty Black People Love & relationships Musings about life The Family Women on April 12, 2019 by Candelaria Silva
Apology Desired/ExpectedThere are some apologies from public figures that I desired and expected, perhaps stupidly. I am glad that […] This entry was posted in Local Politics Musings about life Rants words of wisdom and tagged apologies Apologize Candelaria Silva politicians pundits on March 2, 2019 by Candelaria Silva
14 High AnxietyJust because you feel uncomfortable doesn’t mean I tried to make you uncomfortable. Was it something I said? […] This entry was posted in Advice Community Encouragement Musings about life self-esteem words of wisdom on February 22, 2019 by Candelaria Silva
6 Envy or Not – I say notEnvy or not. I say not. This past Christmas, my husband and I traveled to Atlanta and Charlotte. […] This entry was posted in Advice Encouragement Friendship Memories Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged Appreciating what you have Atlanta Charlotte Don't the Joneses Get you Down Envy on January 16, 2019 by Candelaria Silva
The First Wrong (Murderers of Jazmine Barnes)I wrote The First Wrong in May 2009 and posted it to my blog. It was written in […] This entry was posted in Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged Black female blogger Candelaria Silva drive-by shooting Eric Black Jr. Jazmine Barnes LaPorsha Washington Larry Woodruffe Murder S. Lee Merritt Shaun King on January 9, 2019 by Candelaria Silva
10 You don’t have to post it just cause you wrote ...You don’t have to post it just cause you wrote it. Everything you think, you don’t have to […] This entry was posted in Language & Words Musings about life Uncategorized Writing - ideas & samples and tagged band on the run lyrics blog post Candelaria Silva listening to something lynda mccartney paul mccartney rough draft self-silencing weariness writing drafts on May 9, 2018 by Candelaria Silva
6 Millions of beautiful thingsAlways remember, no matter the headlines, there are millions of beautiful, joyful, peaceful, fun, and creative things going […] This entry was posted in Art Beauty Boston Community Encouragement Laughter & Joy Musings about life and tagged Black Market in Dudley Good News holiday spirit on December 24, 2017 by Candelaria Silva