Coziness – A good day



I am blessed today to:



  • have heat in frigid weather;

  • a casserole made yesterday that tasted even better today; 

  • a few books I’m interested in reading;

  • interesting work from my first individual client (yippee!);

  • electricity that is working, which means that the internet connection and television and music are working (so I am fully entertained);

  • a phone with caller ID helping to screen for  the unidentified (which usually means a telemarketer) – or talkative (a friend who I’ll call back when I need a break from peace and productivity);

  • secured free tickets to a movie taping (thank goodness I read those small paragraphs in the paper – sometimes you find out about good and free stuff);

  • a positive call from my daughter (love those);

  • a lovely conversation with my husband on work and politics.

This has been an overall good day with no drama!  I am cozy, toasty, and happy to be right here.

It’s great to have peace. A good part of my life was not peaceful – whether from the roaring of the Leos that my mother and stepfather were while I was growing up or the stings of my Scorpio first husband.  Once I grew up from childhood and got out of a bad first marriage, this Gemini has always nurtured peace and quiet.  I am quiet habitually because I am an avid reader.  I am quiet by choice because I can catch up to myself then – ideas form and are massaged in my brain until I’m ready to write them down in stories or cook them up for dinner or rearrange them in my rooms.  As much as I have had to talk in my public work – I most often use words economically in my personal space.

It’s great to be fully present where I am and not wishing to be someplace else or imagining that someplace else is better.  How much time did I waste doing that?

Each hour, each day, each year of our lives is a gift.  I wonder what gifts 2008 will bring?  I’m looking forward to great and good things, positive surprises, achievement of goals, etc.  I am trying to embrace a lesson I learned during my recent visit to my granddaughter – to smile with my whole being.  I am working to have faith that the things that need to work out in my life right now will be worked out.

Peace.


About Candelaria Silva

Candelaria Silva-Collins is a marketing, community outreach and programming consultant; writer; and trainer/facilitator who lives in Boston, Massachusetts. She has designed and facilitated workshops on a wide variety of topics including communication, facilitation, job search skills, team building, and parenting issues. She currently coordinates the Community Membership Program of the Huntington Theatre Company. Her work as Director of ACT Roxbury was profiled in several publications, including The Creative Communities Builders Handbook. Candelaria’s children’s stories, short stories, essays and reviews have been published in local and national publications and she is an active blogger. Her publications include the booklets, Handling Rejection; Pushing through Shyness: Networking Tips when You’re Shy, Slow to Warm Up or Just don’t Feel you Belong; and Real Questions about Sex & Relationships for Teens: A Discussion Guide for Parents. She has served on the boards of Goddard College, Wheelock Family Theatre, Boston Foundation for Architecture, and Discover Roxbury. She is currently Chair, Designators of the Henderson Foundation.