U.T. Saunders

If there was ever a man who was generous, gracious and good* it was U.T. Saunders. U.T. was smart, elegant, […]

Fittin’ to do it

Have you noticed the habit of a lot of people who talk about what they’re “fittin'” to do? (Also known […]

When Ends Don’t Meet

When ends don’t meet, we have to figure out how to squeeze them together. I watched my mother do this […]

Love is Acceptance

If you don’t accept a person just as they are you don’t really love them. That’s a strong statement but […]

Frightened and Scired

Flying from Boston to Charlotte by way of JFK Airport in NYC had me frightened and scired (scared). We dipped […]

When the Stars Align

Blessed are the days when something you have been working toward is achieved. Sometimes the stars align and you are […]

Why not Obama?

Langston Hughes wrote a wonderful series of poems around dreams. One of the poems in the series has last lines […]

Fond Remembrance

Heels tap across the floor. Bracelets jingle around an arm. A scarf folds and flutters off a neck. Hips sway […]

Go Slow to Go Fast

Going slow to go fast is a facilitation technique. It means to take time with the introductions, the ground rules, […]

Scumboogahs and Scalawags

How easy it is to forget that in your youngish days you have had moments (or more) of being a scumboogah, scalawag, […]

Just Pick Up and Go!

Have you ever found yourself unexpectedly in an airport or train station and thought to yourself – I could just […]

Don’t have a cow!

It seems to me that one of the laws of nature is that all living things have two parent-creators; the masculine […]

Believing My Husband

I’ve decided to start believing my husband when he answers my questions at warp (sp?) speed. I will believe that […]