Tribe of Good People

Tribe

I am a member of the tribe of good people and I meet new members every day.  We come from all backgrounds.  We hail from St. Louis, Boston, Chi-town, Hawaii, India, Charlotte, Alabama, Mississippi, Bermuda, Nigeria and too many other places to name.  We sing, we dance, we laugh, we work, we read, we think.  Some of us are rich in material things and/or money.  Others of us are rich in experience, opinions, and love. Some of us are broke and hoping that trouble don’t last always. We are straight and gay and “can’t be bothered.”  We are single, married, going-together, and looking for companionship.  We are parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, sisters, and friends.  We come in all the colors of the human race and in all configurations of race and culture.

Members of the tribe of good people meet “with an absence of strangeness.”  (That’s a quote from something I read a while ago – and don’t remember where.)  No matter how we meet, when we finally get to see each other…when we finally get to peak beneath the veneer of our role – there is a shock of recognition – because once again we have met another good and interesting person.  Someone fabulous and loud about it or someone fabulous and low-key.

As members of the tribe of good people we are all in this world not of our making that we must journey through as best we can.  It so helps to know you’re not alone in being an interesting and fabulous member of the tribe of good people.

We are survivors of a world that has tried to pull us into the tribe of bad people.  Somehow, some way we resisted the pull of that tribe.

Until we develop our official handshake, I send you a wink, a nod, a hug, a kiss, a wish for continued goodness.


About Candelaria Silva

Candelaria Silva-Collins is a marketing, community outreach and programming consultant; writer; and trainer/facilitator who lives in Boston, Massachusetts. She has designed and facilitated workshops on a wide variety of topics including communication, facilitation, job search skills, team building, and parenting issues. She currently coordinates the Community Membership Program of the Huntington Theatre Company. Her work as Director of ACT Roxbury was profiled in several publications, including The Creative Communities Builders Handbook. Candelaria’s children’s stories, short stories, essays and reviews have been published in local and national publications and she is an active blogger. Her publications include the booklets, Handling Rejection; Pushing through Shyness: Networking Tips when You’re Shy, Slow to Warm Up or Just don’t Feel you Belong; and Real Questions about Sex & Relationships for Teens: A Discussion Guide for Parents. She has served on the boards of Goddard College, Wheelock Family Theatre, Boston Foundation for Architecture, and Discover Roxbury. She is currently Chair, Designators of the Henderson Foundation.