2 Defining Blackness – Beyonce, Jamelia & CandelariaNote: I posted this piece in 2009. It bears repeating because of the recent brouhaha over Beyonce’s blackness. […] This entry was posted in Black People Celebration Language & Words Power - Politics & Race Rants self-esteem words of wisdom and tagged Beyonce blackness defined Jamelia Piers Morgan Queen Bey on April 27, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
4 Did you already have your quiet?A quiet moment. Did you already have your quiet moment, month, year or decade? Did you recognize the […] This entry was posted in Advice Laughter & Joy Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged drama-free Michael Jackson Pete Seeger quiet moments quite times The Byrds Turn Turn Turn on February 21, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
2 If it’s the thought that countsIf it’s the thought that counts, have the right thought. Act like you know. Act like you know […] This entry was posted in Advice Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged bugly cognac Hennessy making thoughts count thoughts on February 15, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
Give the dog a bone; cut the dude some slackGive the dog a bone* Yield the right of way Cut the dude some slack Turn gently away […] This entry was posted in Advice Encouragement Musings about life With Gratitude & Thanks words of wisdom and tagged being kind benefit of the doubt kindness loving on February 3, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
6 Preaching to the choir – community meetingsThere’s some serious smack going on in the world – real serious, deadly serious, but I’m not going […] This entry was posted in Advice Boston Community Local Politics Musings about life Rants Technology words of wisdom and tagged community bona fides community meetings social media ignorance on January 11, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
3 You don’t even know – the shadow selfYou don’t even know who you think you know. The shadow self exists. When the story first broke, […] This entry was posted in Advice Musings about life Scary & Worrisom Uncategorized words of wisdom and tagged Bill Cosby Hugh Hefner Jarad Fogle John Wayne Gacy Joyce Mitchell playboy Shadow self on August 19, 2015 by Candelaria Silva
1 How are you gonna hurt my feelings?I had a great time visiting my family in St. Louis recently. Our trip was cut short but […] This entry was posted in Advice Language & Words The Family words of wisdom and tagged Honesty Name-calling Self-knowledge on May 26, 2015 by Candelaria Silva
2 Can I poet with you – Ntozake ShangeI had originally hoped to post a poem a day during Poetry Month (April) which has officially ended […] This entry was posted in Art Black People Books Celebration Language & Words Laughter & Joy Love & relationships words of wisdom Writing - ideas & samples and tagged Mass Poetry Month Ntozake Shange on May 1, 2015 by Candelaria Silva
Can I poet with you – Robert FrostLo and behold that some famous poems by well-heralded poets that I had to read for school, still […] This entry was posted in Books Language & Words Reading words of wisdom and tagged Poetry Robert Frost on April 10, 2015 by Candelaria Silva
1 Here + There = EverywhereWe are all in this together. What don’t we understand about this? We may all live differently in […] This entry was posted in Community Healthcare Musings about life Power - Politics & Race Rants words of wisdom and tagged AIDS epidemic Ebola Crisis One World on October 12, 2014 by Candelaria Silva
2 Did you realize you were young?When you were young, did you realize you were young? When I was young, I didn’t know I […] This entry was posted in Advice Encouragement Laughter & Joy Musings about life self-esteem words of wisdom and tagged being young Embracing youth life stages Poetry Out Loud on June 21, 2014 by Candelaria Silva
5 The Father LotteryDo you know who your father is? Bing . You get a point. Some people have no idea who […] This entry was posted in The Family Tribute Uncategorized words of wisdom and tagged Dad Father Lottery Father Surrogates Fathers Grandfathers T-Pop Uncles on June 12, 2014 by Candelaria Silva
5 Switcheroo – try something newIf you can’t get what you want, could you learn to want something else? People do this every […] This entry was posted in Advice Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged changing dreams dreams Elliot Rodger try something new on May 26, 2014 by Candelaria Silva
Do. Doing. Done.Do. Doing. Done. Let me expound. Do What does s/he do? Not what they say they’re going to […] This entry was posted in Advice Love & relationships Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged Do-Overs Doing What have you done for me lately? on May 17, 2014 by Candelaria Silva
3 Just A Little BitFor me, it is important to make a little movement. I cannot behave like a stick-in-the-mud even though […] This entry was posted in Musings about life Pleasures self-esteem words of wisdom and tagged incremental steps Making progress movement well-being on April 23, 2014 by Candelaria Silva
3 Why Are You Good?My blog posts are inspired by snippets of conversations that I’ve had or overheard, close encounters of all […] This entry was posted in Advice Encouragement Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged be good for goodness sake Being good doing good on March 27, 2014 by Candelaria Silva
2 What Social Justice Means (to me)Social justice is the view that everyone deserves equal economic, political and social rights and opportunities. Social workers […] This entry was posted in Black People Boston Community Language & Words Power - Politics & Race Rants words of wisdom Work & working and tagged Candelaria Silva Center for Economic and Social Justice community development Full employment Jr. Day National Association of Social Workers Social Justice; Martin Luther King on January 28, 2014 by Candelaria Silva
This is why to buy “This is How”This is How: Help for the Self: Proven Aid in Overcoming Shyness, Molestation, Fatness, Spinsterhood, Grief, Disease, Lushery, […] This entry was posted in Advice Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged Augusten Burroughs; This Is How Feel the Fear & Do It Anyway on January 18, 2014 by Candelaria Silva