25 Friends whose family I can’t meet – racists in the ...Turns out I have friends who have racists in the family. About 30 or so years ago, I […] This entry was posted in Black People Friendship Power - Politics & Race and tagged Exclusion racism Racists in the family the black people Trump on December 9, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
3 Anyone but you (Trump)Any place but here Anyone but you Any time ‘cept now Lord, please help me through. No place […] This entry was posted in Language & Words Power - Politics & Race words of wisdom and tagged 2016 US Presidential Election Donald Trump Sorrow in US Election on November 10, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
6 Inventology: how we dream up things that change the worldWhat inspires people to invent things especially the inventions that are so obvious once they are created? What […] This entry was posted in Books Dorchester Reading Technology and tagged Dreamers Genrich Altshuller Inventions inventors Joyce Linehan Pagan Kennedy on October 23, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
1 No One Comes from Nothing _ Stop Saying This!“I came from nothing.” “S/he came from nothing.” I hear this phrase applied or self-described regularly when someone […] This entry was posted in Advice Encouragement Language & Words Musings about life Uncategorized on October 13, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
6 The 13th – Director Ava DuVernay’s documentary for NetflixNeither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly […] This entry was posted in Black People Community Power - Politics & Race and tagged Ava DuVernay Criminal Justice Malkia Cyril mass incarceration Michelle Alexander Shakur Senghor The 13th amendment to the Constitution The 13th documentary The New Jim Crow on October 10, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
5 In despair about disparitiesSo, you’ve invited to the meeting, convening, conversation or whatever the hell it’s being called this time – […] This entry was posted in Black People Boston Language & Words Power - Politics & Race Rants and tagged data discussing inequality Hidden Cost of Being African-American inequality Nikki Rosa by Nikki Giovanni social justice discussions The Half has Never Been Told The New Jim Crow Warmth of Other Suns white privilege Why you get tFunky on Me on August 28, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
1 What I’m Reading – The Health Gap by Sir Michael ...I’ve been reading some interesting books and so thought I’d start sharing specific books on a regular basis. […] This entry was posted in Books Community Healthcare Reading words of wisdom and tagged employment and health Sir Michael Marmot on August 22, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
9 To be real about resilienceI’ve listened to many keynote speakers, presenters and panelists talk about the importance of resiliency over the years […] This entry was posted in Advice Black People Encouragement Language & Words Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged coping keynote speakers platitudes resilience resiliency on August 18, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
7 Do I do that?I don’t want to be: A bitch A witch A person with a chip on my shoulder The […] This entry was posted in Advice Language & Words Musings about life Rants words of wisdom and tagged negative attitude Rudeness words that disrupt on July 1, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
4 Beauty Role Models – look aroundSorrow and incredulity rose in me as I watched a discussion recently on a local television show whose […] This entry was posted in Beauty Black People Celebration self-esteem Uncategorized and tagged angelique kidjo beautiful black women Beauty Beyonce carmen mcrae Cicely Tyson diahann carooll Fannie Lou Hamer joan armatrading mari evans Mary J. Blige Model Pat Evans Mriam Makeba nancy wilson nina simone odetta Pam Grier Shirley Chisholm Sonia Sanchez toni cade bambara Toni Morrison on June 16, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
18 The Orange Pantsuit a tale of mentorshipLike many young adults, I was enthusiastic, energetic, and naive. So I went to my new job at […] This entry was posted in Advice Encouragement Memories words of wisdom Work & working and tagged mentoring orange pantsuit selectric typewriter work clothes on June 8, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
2 Defining Blackness – Beyonce, Jamelia & CandelariaNote: I posted this piece in 2009. It bears repeating because of the recent brouhaha over Beyonce’s blackness. […] This entry was posted in Black People Celebration Language & Words Power - Politics & Race Rants self-esteem words of wisdom and tagged Beyonce blackness defined Jamelia Piers Morgan Queen Bey on April 27, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
2 Domestic Situation poem & Poetry Out LoudSome people have a “graveyard” love. I heard this phrase in my youth and it stuck with me. […] This entry was posted in Art Books Celebration Language & Words Love & relationships Teens and tagged Courtney Stewart Ernest Hilbert Poetry Month Poetry Out Loud on April 20, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
4 Did you already have your quiet?A quiet moment. Did you already have your quiet moment, month, year or decade? Did you recognize the […] This entry was posted in Advice Laughter & Joy Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged drama-free Michael Jackson Pete Seeger quiet moments quite times The Byrds Turn Turn Turn on February 21, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
2 If it’s the thought that countsIf it’s the thought that counts, have the right thought. Act like you know. Act like you know […] This entry was posted in Advice Musings about life words of wisdom and tagged bugly cognac Hennessy making thoughts count thoughts on February 15, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
Give the dog a bone; cut the dude some slackGive the dog a bone* Yield the right of way Cut the dude some slack Turn gently away […] This entry was posted in Advice Encouragement Musings about life With Gratitude & Thanks words of wisdom and tagged being kind benefit of the doubt kindness loving on February 3, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
2 Thanks to the nurse who…I must say thank you. Thank you because you touched me – one human being to another.Thank you […] This entry was posted in Encouragement Healthcare Musings about life Tribute With Gratitude & Thanks and tagged medical bureaucracy Nurses the importance of touch on January 26, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
Books read in 2015People who know me or who see me on my daily commutes know that I love to read. […] This entry was posted in Books Reading on January 16, 2016 by Candelaria Silva