Po-Po-Poetry Month – Abria SmithApril is the 25th anniversary of National Poetry Month, a celebration of poets and poetry, started by the […] This entry was posted in Black People Books Boston Language & Words Laughter & Joy self-esteem Women Writing - ideas & samples and tagged Abria Smith Candelaria Silva Clarence Major Creative Entrepreneur Fellowship National Poetry Month Poetry Sombody Soup on April 20, 2021 by Candelaria Silva
2 Po-Po-Poetry: Honey, I LoveIn honor of National Poetry Month, I am kick off a series of poetry posts by featuring Honey, […] This entry was posted in Black People Books Celebration Children Children's Literature Language & Words Laughter & Joy Reading self-esteem The Family and tagged Black girl joy Diane and Leo Dillon Eloise Greenfield Honey I Love Jan Spivey Gilchrist on April 12, 2021 by Candelaria Silva
Growing Up in The BlacknessGrowing up in The Blackness. This entry was posted in Black People Celebration Community Memories Music Power - Politics & Race self-esteem The Family and tagged Annie Malone Homer G. Phillips Hospital Kinloch Missouri St. Louis. St. Louis America on March 30, 2021 by Candelaria Silva
14 High AnxietyJust because you feel uncomfortable doesn’t mean I tried to make you uncomfortable. Was it something I said? […] This entry was posted in Advice Community Encouragement Musings about life self-esteem words of wisdom on February 22, 2019 by Candelaria Silva
4 Beauty Role Models – look aroundSorrow and incredulity rose in me as I watched a discussion recently on a local television show whose […] This entry was posted in Beauty Black People Celebration self-esteem Uncategorized and tagged angelique kidjo beautiful black women Beauty Beyonce carmen mcrae Cicely Tyson diahann carooll Fannie Lou Hamer joan armatrading mari evans Mary J. Blige Model Pat Evans Mriam Makeba nancy wilson nina simone odetta Pam Grier Shirley Chisholm Sonia Sanchez toni cade bambara Toni Morrison on June 16, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
2 Defining Blackness – Beyonce, Jamelia & CandelariaNote: I posted this piece in 2009. It bears repeating because of the recent brouhaha over Beyonce’s blackness. […] This entry was posted in Black People Celebration Language & Words Power - Politics & Race Rants self-esteem words of wisdom and tagged Beyonce blackness defined Jamelia Piers Morgan Queen Bey on April 27, 2016 by Candelaria Silva
3 To Be Real – Thoughts about Rachel/Caitlyn/Laverne“It’s got to be real. To be real. It’s got to be real.“ The chorus from Cheryl Lynn’s […] This entry was posted in Black People Rants self-esteem and tagged Caitlyn Jenner Cheryl Lynn identity Laverne Cox passing Rachel Dolezal on June 15, 2015 by Candelaria Silva
2 Did you realize you were young?When you were young, did you realize you were young? When I was young, I didn’t know I […] This entry was posted in Advice Encouragement Laughter & Joy Musings about life self-esteem words of wisdom and tagged being young Embracing youth life stages Poetry Out Loud on June 21, 2014 by Candelaria Silva
3 Just A Little BitFor me, it is important to make a little movement. I cannot behave like a stick-in-the-mud even though […] This entry was posted in Musings about life Pleasures self-esteem words of wisdom and tagged incremental steps Making progress movement well-being on April 23, 2014 by Candelaria Silva
4 How to stick to a jobRecently, I’ve had conversations with and about four youngish adults (all in their early thirties) and one fortyish […] This entry was posted in Advice Parenting self-esteem The Family Work & working and tagged how to stick to a job work discipline tips Young adults on March 22, 2014 by Candelaria Silva
2 Forgiveness – 1I try to forgive you. I forgive you. I forgive you for not choosing me – as […] This entry was posted in Love & relationships Memories Musings about life self-esteem on August 27, 2013 by Candelaria Silva
Embarassed for/by myselfHave you ever been embarrassed for or by your own behavior? Not embarrassed because of what others might […] This entry was posted in Musings about life self-esteem on August 1, 2013 by Candelaria Silva
But You Didn’t!I could have written a better book than that. You’re right, but you didn’t. I could have made […] This entry was posted in Advice Encouragement Musings about life self-esteem words of wisdom on May 18, 2013 by Candelaria Silva
Pushing through shyness: Networking tipsON SALE NOW: Pushing Through Shyness: Networking Tips when you’re shy, slow-to-warm-up, inexperienced or don’t feel you […] This entry was posted in self-esteem Work & working on November 1, 2011 by Candelaria Silva
2 Elephant Walk?Walk like an elephant? Imagine that. Not so long ago, a thought breezed through my mind. (This happens […] This entry was posted in Laughter & Joy self-esteem Walking on May 31, 2011 by Candelaria Silva
7 Be ItWhen you are it, you don’t have to announce it, proclaim it, or shout it. You just have […] This entry was posted in Rants self-esteem on December 6, 2010 by Candelaria Silva
Age related rites of passage, do they exist any more?(This post originally appeared in a slightly different versionon BlogHer.com as Age-Related Rites of Passage, Do They Exits Any […] This entry was posted in self-esteem Teens on December 10, 2009 by Candelaria Silva
7 My Feets Are BigMy feet are pretty big – note I didn’t say too big. Too big is a judgment call. […] This entry was posted in Laughter & Joy self-esteem on June 4, 2009 by Candelaria Silva